Probably the biggest question for all people, whether they believe in God or not, is why is there so much suffering in this world? This is a question that probably won't ever be answered until we meet God in person. Many people have opinions, and I'd like to give mine here.
Why does it seem like God doesn't want good things for me? Why wouldn't he want me to have good health, and to be happy and safe? Why wouldn't he want me to have enough income to pay my bills, help my kids with school, and go on a vacation once in a while? It doesn't seem like these things are that much to ask for. I don't think He's that concerned with these things because there is something that is much more important to Him.
Dr. Larry Crabb is a best-selling author, counselor and psychologist. He's written many popular books including "Inside Out", "Finding God", and "The Marriage Builder". I've read some of his books and liked them, though the ones I read were really deep and kind of hard to digest.
Recently, I discovered another book by Dr. Crabb called "Shattered Dreams - God's Unexpected Pathway to Joy". I started reading it and I realized it was different than the others I've read by him. It was actually much easier to read, and I could tell from the writing style that this book was intimately important to him, that he had really lived what he was writing here.
Most people believe that joy and happiness are the same thing. If we have material things to make us comfortable such as a big house, a new car, a great job than we'll have joy. Maybe having a loving husband or wife and obedient children is what's necessary. But while those things might make us happy, they don't necessarily lead to joy.
God wants us to find joy in a different place - in relationship with Him. If you can achieve that relationship and still have the above-mentioned happiness, that's great! I don't think they are necessarily exclusive of each other. After all, God does want us to have good things. The Bible says "If you know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give good things to those who ask Him!".
You see, when we achieve that point of supposed happiness, where we have the earthly things that we desire, sometimes we become content with that and don't seek God anymore. Or we might become so involved in hanging onto that happiness that it consumes all of our time, and keeps us from relationship with God. Therefore, God is willing to allow to experience some suffering to build that relationship. How we react to this pain is what determines whether we'll have joy or not. Most of us will do whatever is necessary to minimize the pain.
Larry Crabb tells us in "Shattered Dreams" that we need to experience that pain and not try to minimize it or turn away from it if we're going to experience the joy that God desires us to have, and that we really hunger for in our hearts. This is no fun, but the bottom line is that's it's the only path to experiencing true joy. After reading this book, I believe that this is why God allows pain and suffering and why bad things happen to good people.
Why does it seem like God doesn't want good things for me? Why wouldn't he want me to have good health, and to be happy and safe? Why wouldn't he want me to have enough income to pay my bills, help my kids with school, and go on a vacation once in a while? It doesn't seem like these things are that much to ask for. I don't think He's that concerned with these things because there is something that is much more important to Him.
Dr. Larry Crabb is a best-selling author, counselor and psychologist. He's written many popular books including "Inside Out", "Finding God", and "The Marriage Builder". I've read some of his books and liked them, though the ones I read were really deep and kind of hard to digest.
Recently, I discovered another book by Dr. Crabb called "Shattered Dreams - God's Unexpected Pathway to Joy". I started reading it and I realized it was different than the others I've read by him. It was actually much easier to read, and I could tell from the writing style that this book was intimately important to him, that he had really lived what he was writing here.
Most people believe that joy and happiness are the same thing. If we have material things to make us comfortable such as a big house, a new car, a great job than we'll have joy. Maybe having a loving husband or wife and obedient children is what's necessary. But while those things might make us happy, they don't necessarily lead to joy.
God wants us to find joy in a different place - in relationship with Him. If you can achieve that relationship and still have the above-mentioned happiness, that's great! I don't think they are necessarily exclusive of each other. After all, God does want us to have good things. The Bible says "If you know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give good things to those who ask Him!".
You see, when we achieve that point of supposed happiness, where we have the earthly things that we desire, sometimes we become content with that and don't seek God anymore. Or we might become so involved in hanging onto that happiness that it consumes all of our time, and keeps us from relationship with God. Therefore, God is willing to allow to experience some suffering to build that relationship. How we react to this pain is what determines whether we'll have joy or not. Most of us will do whatever is necessary to minimize the pain.
Larry Crabb tells us in "Shattered Dreams" that we need to experience that pain and not try to minimize it or turn away from it if we're going to experience the joy that God desires us to have, and that we really hunger for in our hearts. This is no fun, but the bottom line is that's it's the only path to experiencing true joy. After reading this book, I believe that this is why God allows pain and suffering and why bad things happen to good people.
About the Author:
Matt Hellstrom is a husband and father of five beautiful adopted kids. Check out some tips for effective parenting skills that Matt and Julie have learned in the last 15 years. You can also read his opinion about why bad things happen to good people.
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